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28 Desember 2009

Teach Children to Read Early

Teach children to read early on a lot of benefits. Clearly, the first increase children's intelligence. We remember, the most rapid brain development in aged 0-6 years. If at this age kids get more intellectual stimulation, the brain child will develop better. Children who used to read from an early age also tend to have the ability to think, communicate, and understand it better. Children who have the ability to write, in the sense of pouring in writing with a neat idea, generally also preceded by the habit of reading early on.
Here are some steps you can try to teach babies to read:

1. Start with a lap infant in a position that made him uncomfortable. Tell him reading activities to be performed. Then invite dialogue. Although babies can not speak, the baby will be more easily attracted when she feels involved. If he already feels comfortable, interested, and involved then the mother started to read books. Read in a voice loud enough and intonation changing as this will foster their interests.


2. Give a book that is suitable for babies. Read and show a lot of picture books and rich in color with a small number of words (no more than 300 words). Flashy colors or contrast will be very interesting baby's attention and interest.

3. Books are made of thick paper very suitable for babies because it is not easy to tear. Please note that the baby shows interest in books by way of holding the book, hitting hit her on the floor, biting, even pulling up to tear. We need to understand how a baby reading a book like this so we do not act reactive to it. For reactive measures will lead to the perception of parents reading to him that is something that is not fun. Currently in bookstores had sold many books that are made of heavy paper, unfortunately the price is still quite expensive and mostly imported books. If you want a little creative, we can create our own books for babies of cardboard shaped like a book and plastered the pictures interesting.

4. The content will give a great influence for the behavior, soul and mind of children. It is therefore important to pick books that it "nutritious" to the brain. Many books that are physically good but bad contents. The safest book containing the true story of a character who does not doubt his kindness. Once any way, we must consider how the story was written, because sometimes there are stories in which the author included the interpretation and thoughts.

5. In essence, any book may be read or given to babies as long as it good for the soul and mind. We do not need to wait until thick berkertas books priced. The books are made of thin paper that was good very good home contents is given and read to our babies.

27 Desember 2009

Ways to Grow Child Empathy

Empathy is a form of children's understanding of what others feel. Children who grow up with good will have empathy outgoing, clever relented, and helpful friend. That way he will be loved by his friends. The world thought the world of children is real and concrete. It's not something that just described in words. To train a sense of empathy, children should be reunited with condition right before her eyes, about life more miserable than himself. We can foster empathy in children's self for example by train:

1. Sensitive to the feelings of other children Parents should frequently talk to their children about the different kinds of feelings that are faced by other people. Say often as possible with the correct language. When the traffic lights to see a street child is being overheated, saying, "O Allah! Poor boy overheating. He was your age, but it must find its own money by selling newspapers."


2. I imagine if he is Invite your child to imagine that if he was suffering as he had seen. Rangkailah sentence that can arouse feelings of the child so that he could imagine it easily.

3. Sacrificing one's own practice Train the child to get used to give something of his own goods to another person really needs to be done. Instead of using money from the charity bag mother, better give children pocket money a little more, the records must set aside a certain percentage to charity. So they have been charitable with their own money.

4. Others happy When children begin to be set aside part of their holdings to someone else, complete the event with a good outcome. That showed them the consequences of his deeds. Show that their actions can make others happy.
ATTITUDE OF EMPATHY
If the child is successfully trained to cultivate the attitude of empathy, then the results will be obtained as follows:

. Children will be able to know and understand the emotions of others and sharing feelings with others.

. With empathy, children are forced to change the mindset rigid to be flexible. Or the selfish become tolerant. . With empathy children will understand that not all wishes can be fulfilled through other people.

. Children will be able to build relationships and be accepted by others.

. Children will be able to socialize and make friends with others.

. Children will have the initiative to help others who are in difficulties.

24 Desember 2009

6 Kick-Faced Wife lascivious

Generally the husband is complaining because of his work (such as professors and doctors), often when she went home and his wife claim that "one thing", he was overwhelmed to serve him. Not only that complaint. If the wife requests more than once to have sex, while the husband was age above 50 (on top of the head 5), how? Michelle Jordan has six tips for dealing wife who had a huge appetite.

1. Give Him Busyness Generally, lascivious wife because of the opposite sex / husband busy. While the possibility of the wife is not a career woman / worker, while he has no hobbies. Investigate what her hobbies (for example, likes to read), then the husband is obliged to buy a book or other.


2. Make Him Healthy corporal You should not be selfish. Because it is your own need to create cooperation, such as exercising together. This physical activity can make you be very healthy, for example, could also meet
stimulation of a passionate wife big. Create a wife that makes blood vessels pass. So that begituan minds to be minus. Some of its energy is depleted.

3. Expand your horizons Once again, you do not be selfish. Encourage your wife to add insight, for example if there are seminars on sexual or other seminars, or if there is a music concert and exhibition of sculpture and painting are good, you invite him. Take also a discussion about this. This will broaden her horizons as well as you.

4. Take Time For "It" If he's connected with whom, obey, and do not refuse. But you must prepare yourself, for example, a drug that can cultivate your sexual passion. Create Easterners (Arabs, Chinese, Persian), to my knowledge, honey and eggs is a panacea for that one, provided that regularly every day. Ginseng in Korea.

2 Desember 2009

Tip Reprimand Children

In the eyes of parents, children often do wrong or naughty. As parents, sometimes we get confused how to advise him. Not infrequently we directly get angry or hit him, but it was not a wise thing. When children berbua wrong, it is commonplace. The issue is, should they be punished? To what extent? How should admonish fault?

Tip Reprimand Children Here are some tips that we can use in admonish children: . When children do wrong, they need to be advised. More impressive if their parents own doing, not through intermediaries. Explain the mistakes they made. Rebuke with a fine and full of wisdom. Avoid using force because maybe it would have a negative impact on children. Later they could be imitating these ways.


. Attitudes are too soft are also not good. Can-can the child does not feel he was being scolded. Later he would look lightly
his mistakes and will dare to repeat.

. Avoid rebuked the child in front of crowds, sister or brother to another. This situation will make him ashamed. He will senantiara feel that others are pointing at him wrong. As a result, lost the feeling of shame and he will dare make that mistake again openly.

. When children love to lie, steal, or hit her friend, and no respect for older people, then remind him of the reward and fear of God in both the world and the hereafter.

. If children make mistakes behind us but in front of the applicable sweet, remind you that God always see everything he does. Indirectly it also means we instill unity to him.

. At fault is corrected, show him what he should do. Do not just blame pamdai without being able to give a solution.
What we need to remember, put the penalty as a last alternative. After a warning or advice if we do not work, and there is no other way except to punish him. That, too, in order to educate, not to vent our frustrations over his behavior.

10 November 2009

Tips Get Friends to Share

Guys. . . We could not bear the problem, we need friends who want to hear our complaints and all the problems we experience. Nah. . . The problem is how we can find the right person?
If one person is not finished but added crushed. So I want to share tips for my friends, how darh friend vent.

1. We have to choose friends who we trust
Friend-friend do not ever choose someone who had just met, choose a person who really knows outside of the person. We know how the nature / character of him, including his habit. But if he seems not to be trusted or you are unsure of him, it helps you keep your story first.


2. Find a friend who has a mature mind and experience of many Friends who think adults do not need people who have parents but can calm us and also could provide a way out of terbail for us. Experience is the best teacher. So, people must have experienced some tips in dealing with problems.

3. Someone who does not leak Would not matter if we know one school, then we must carefully choose friends who are not the bucket and can keep a secret. If it's already well bucket with people who we should be silent. No need any comment, let alone the news will be stale if we tanggapin cool calm.

4. People who will pray for us Friend-friend when we vent with people like this would be many benefits in addition to our relief, we can also pray and support us so we face the problem resolved.

5. Follow your heart If the problems facing the person we are not convinced that we can vent follow our conscience respectively. OK That's on top of some tips to find friends vent. So. . . Should never despair in facing the problem.
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