Know, O thou most fortunate that su'ul Khotimah Insha Allah (the bad end of life) may not be experienced by people who constantly improve themselves, both physically and his mind with God Almighty, and always acted honestly, in both deeds and words, because This story never existed. However, su'ul Khotimah that would befall the people his inner conviction and outward deeds have been damaged, and all those who dare to boldly do major sins and usual playing around with crime or immorality, so all the bad deeds that will dominate himself, to get her death, before he had time to repent NASHUHA (real repentance).
Then, know also that su'ul Khotimah many causes. As for the many causes of the most urgent are:
1. Associating anything with Allah. The nature of associating partners with Allah is to drape the liver to other than Allah, whether in the form of love, fear, hope, prayer, trust, Inabah rehab centers(repentance), etc..
2. Doing heresy in religious matters. Bid'ah is invent a new thing that there is no guidance, either from Allah (the Quran) and the Messenger of Allah (Al-Hadith). Therefore, the perpetrators of heresy is not likely to be allowed to enjoy Husnul Khotimah. Especially if it turns out he was among those who are still working on sampaikannya act of heresy after the argument. We seek refuge in Allah from His abandoned like this.
3. Always dabbling in disobedience, disobedience, because he considered trivial and belittle his existence. Apakagi immoral-immoral if it included major sins, then all the bad deeds together Satan will abandon the culprit, until the seconds before his death.Where have gathered into one in a person, God has let him and his faith were also down, then he will dijerembabkan into su'ul Khotimah.
4. Make fun of religion Islam and its adherents, such as the clergy, missionary interpreters and people Salih, a light hand (rude) and say dirty words to them.
5. Dereliction of God Almighty and feel secure from Him adzab.
6. To do zholim. Kezholiman is a blossoming and berteduhnya (kemaksiatan-kemaksiatan. People do zholim are the ones leading the most deserves a su'ul Khotimah. We seek refuge in God from this day.
7. Associating with evil people (like thugs, criminals, etc.)
8. Ujub (pride). The nature of this trait is a sense of pride that people get attacked by the perpetrators when doing a practice is accompanied by low regard deeds done by others and feel most high when compared with them.
Here are some major causes su'ul Khotimah, because all that is base and source of all evil.
Therefore, should people who berakak longer guided truly away from and avoid the things above, in order to avoid su'ul Khotimah.
28 Desember 2009
Teach Children to Read Early
Teach children to read early on a lot of benefits. Clearly, the first increase children's intelligence. We remember, the most rapid brain development in aged 0-6 years. If at this age kids get more intellectual stimulation, the brain child will develop better. Children who used to read from an early age also tend to have the ability to think, communicate, and understand it better. Children who have the ability to write, in the sense of pouring in writing with a neat idea, generally also preceded by the habit of reading early on.
Here are some steps you can try to teach babies to read:
1. Start with a lap infant in a position that made him uncomfortable. Tell him reading activities to be performed. Then invite dialogue. Although babies can not speak, the baby will be more easily attracted when she feels involved. If he already feels comfortable, interested, and involved then the mother started to read books. Read in a voice loud enough and intonation changing as this will foster their interests.
2. Give a book that is suitable for babies. Read and show a lot of picture books and rich in color with a small number of words (no more than 300 words). Flashy colors or contrast will be very interesting baby's attention and interest.
3. Books are made of thick paper very suitable for babies because it is not easy to tear. Please note that the baby shows interest in books by way of holding the book, hitting hit her on the floor, biting, even pulling up to tear. We need to understand how a baby reading a book like this so we do not act reactive to it. For reactive measures will lead to the perception of parents reading to him that is something that is not fun. Currently in bookstores had sold many books that are made of heavy paper, unfortunately the price is still quite expensive and mostly imported books. If you want a little creative, we can create our own books for babies of cardboard shaped like a book and plastered the pictures interesting.
4. The content will give a great influence for the behavior, soul and mind of children. It is therefore important to pick books that it "nutritious" to the brain. Many books that are physically good but bad contents. The safest book containing the true story of a character who does not doubt his kindness. Once any way, we must consider how the story was written, because sometimes there are stories in which the author included the interpretation and thoughts.
5. In essence, any book may be read or given to babies as long as it good for the soul and mind. We do not need to wait until thick berkertas books priced. The books are made of thin paper that was good very good home contents is given and read to our babies.
Here are some steps you can try to teach babies to read:
1. Start with a lap infant in a position that made him uncomfortable. Tell him reading activities to be performed. Then invite dialogue. Although babies can not speak, the baby will be more easily attracted when she feels involved. If he already feels comfortable, interested, and involved then the mother started to read books. Read in a voice loud enough and intonation changing as this will foster their interests.
2. Give a book that is suitable for babies. Read and show a lot of picture books and rich in color with a small number of words (no more than 300 words). Flashy colors or contrast will be very interesting baby's attention and interest.
3. Books are made of thick paper very suitable for babies because it is not easy to tear. Please note that the baby shows interest in books by way of holding the book, hitting hit her on the floor, biting, even pulling up to tear. We need to understand how a baby reading a book like this so we do not act reactive to it. For reactive measures will lead to the perception of parents reading to him that is something that is not fun. Currently in bookstores had sold many books that are made of heavy paper, unfortunately the price is still quite expensive and mostly imported books. If you want a little creative, we can create our own books for babies of cardboard shaped like a book and plastered the pictures interesting.
4. The content will give a great influence for the behavior, soul and mind of children. It is therefore important to pick books that it "nutritious" to the brain. Many books that are physically good but bad contents. The safest book containing the true story of a character who does not doubt his kindness. Once any way, we must consider how the story was written, because sometimes there are stories in which the author included the interpretation and thoughts.
5. In essence, any book may be read or given to babies as long as it good for the soul and mind. We do not need to wait until thick berkertas books priced. The books are made of thin paper that was good very good home contents is given and read to our babies.
27 Desember 2009
Ways to Grow Child Empathy
Empathy is a form of children's understanding of what others feel. Children who grow up with good will have empathy outgoing, clever relented, and helpful friend. That way he will be loved by his friends. The world thought the world of children is real and concrete. It's not something that just described in words. To train a sense of empathy, children should be reunited with condition right before her eyes, about life more miserable than himself. We can foster empathy in children's self for example by train:
1. Sensitive to the feelings of other children Parents should frequently talk to their children about the different kinds of feelings that are faced by other people. Say often as possible with the correct language. When the traffic lights to see a street child is being overheated, saying, "O Allah! Poor boy overheating. He was your age, but it must find its own money by selling newspapers."
2. I imagine if he is Invite your child to imagine that if he was suffering as he had seen. Rangkailah sentence that can arouse feelings of the child so that he could imagine it easily.
3. Sacrificing one's own practice Train the child to get used to give something of his own goods to another person really needs to be done. Instead of using money from the charity bag mother, better give children pocket money a little more, the records must set aside a certain percentage to charity. So they have been charitable with their own money.
4. Others happy When children begin to be set aside part of their holdings to someone else, complete the event with a good outcome. That showed them the consequences of his deeds. Show that their actions can make others happy.
ATTITUDE OF EMPATHY
If the child is successfully trained to cultivate the attitude of empathy, then the results will be obtained as follows:
. Children will be able to know and understand the emotions of others and sharing feelings with others.
. With empathy, children are forced to change the mindset rigid to be flexible. Or the selfish become tolerant. . With empathy children will understand that not all wishes can be fulfilled through other people.
. Children will be able to build relationships and be accepted by others.
. Children will be able to socialize and make friends with others.
. Children will have the initiative to help others who are in difficulties.
1. Sensitive to the feelings of other children Parents should frequently talk to their children about the different kinds of feelings that are faced by other people. Say often as possible with the correct language. When the traffic lights to see a street child is being overheated, saying, "O Allah! Poor boy overheating. He was your age, but it must find its own money by selling newspapers."
2. I imagine if he is Invite your child to imagine that if he was suffering as he had seen. Rangkailah sentence that can arouse feelings of the child so that he could imagine it easily.
3. Sacrificing one's own practice Train the child to get used to give something of his own goods to another person really needs to be done. Instead of using money from the charity bag mother, better give children pocket money a little more, the records must set aside a certain percentage to charity. So they have been charitable with their own money.
4. Others happy When children begin to be set aside part of their holdings to someone else, complete the event with a good outcome. That showed them the consequences of his deeds. Show that their actions can make others happy.
ATTITUDE OF EMPATHY
If the child is successfully trained to cultivate the attitude of empathy, then the results will be obtained as follows:
. Children will be able to know and understand the emotions of others and sharing feelings with others.
. With empathy, children are forced to change the mindset rigid to be flexible. Or the selfish become tolerant. . With empathy children will understand that not all wishes can be fulfilled through other people.
. Children will be able to build relationships and be accepted by others.
. Children will be able to socialize and make friends with others.
. Children will have the initiative to help others who are in difficulties.
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