Empathy is a form of children's understanding of what others feel. Children who grow up with good will have empathy outgoing, clever relented, and helpful friend. That way he will be loved by his friends. The world thought the world of children is real and concrete. It's not something that just described in words. To train a sense of empathy, children should be reunited with condition right before her eyes, about life more miserable than himself. We can foster empathy in children's self for example by train:
1. Sensitive to the feelings of other children Parents should frequently talk to their children about the different kinds of feelings that are faced by other people. Say often as possible with the correct language. When the traffic lights to see a street child is being overheated, saying, "O Allah! Poor boy overheating. He was your age, but it must find its own money by selling newspapers."
2. I imagine if he is Invite your child to imagine that if he was suffering as he had seen. Rangkailah sentence that can arouse feelings of the child so that he could imagine it easily.
3. Sacrificing one's own practice Train the child to get used to give something of his own goods to another person really needs to be done. Instead of using money from the charity bag mother, better give children pocket money a little more, the records must set aside a certain percentage to charity. So they have been charitable with their own money.
4. Others happy When children begin to be set aside part of their holdings to someone else, complete the event with a good outcome. That showed them the consequences of his deeds. Show that their actions can make others happy.
ATTITUDE OF EMPATHY
If the child is successfully trained to cultivate the attitude of empathy, then the results will be obtained as follows:
. Children will be able to know and understand the emotions of others and sharing feelings with others.
. With empathy, children are forced to change the mindset rigid to be flexible. Or the selfish become tolerant. . With empathy children will understand that not all wishes can be fulfilled through other people.
. Children will be able to build relationships and be accepted by others.
. Children will be able to socialize and make friends with others.
. Children will have the initiative to help others who are in difficulties.
27 Desember 2009
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