Tips for Guiding Children

Preparing childhood as the most beautiful and happy, preparation period so that later they can menyusuaikan themselves and exist in its environment will not be easy. There is art in itself. Limitations of reasoning, comprehension, her innocence requires the media to translate what we want. Educate them through daily events more easily digested and felt by the children. The expression of attention and your affection on their word not with language but with the language of love. There are a few tips for raising children well. As expressed by the Charles Schaefer in his idea that is named "Instinct Parents in educating CHILD".


1. Take Care children with love. Love is love that underlies everything, give it and let them know and feel. Horn, a psychologist said: "People who experience lack of love in which a child will feel happy, and tend to develop negative attitudes which the adult". Love itself includes 2 kompenen unified.
2. The need for affection. Needs of children will be physical contact with their parents like hugged, kissed and caressed. The need for maintenance is reflected in the child needs to be helped, protected, guided also given encouragement.
3. Be assertive. Excessive love that tails will say yes all the kids can actually hinder the process of self-reliance should also be firm. Reprimand was necessary whenever appropriate, sanctions are too firmly fixed as needed. Tente only in levels of teaching, educating, and avoiding falling hand. Telling study room, canceling a picnic, or postpone buying new shoes, it seems more effective to state that they are guilty and we are disappointed by the naughty.

4. Spend more time for children. Parents should provide a special time to play with kids, teaching and listening to them. Let parents arrange a schedule of activities involving parents and children. Make dinner together as well as an arena for conversation and family discussions.
5. Create a healthy marriage. Harmonious relationship between the father and mother is a crucial factor for the development and psychological growth of children. A mother said "a harmonious couples usually have a happy child."
6. Help your child to become good adults. Child should begin to be taught about good manners from an early age, pahamkan that he is not a rigid attitude or simply a collection of norms, the language of polite or orderly movement but one who is sincere concern for others.